The Corset

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Popular item of the Moment – Brazilian Metallic Bandeau Bikini

The item titled above, the Brazilian metallic bandeau bikini seems to be the item of choice recently from our site.

 

Here are some other what some may consider risqué bikinis below.

 

Whatever you wear to the beach whether it be exotic swimwear, ordinary swim wear, normal tanga type bikinis, full body swimwear, thong, Brazilian thong or slingshot micro bikini make sure it is appropriate for the place you will visit. I am not sure some countries would be too pleased with the second option. Wherever you are holidaying just make sure it is exotic enough for your bikini so you can enjoy the swim and the sunbathing by the pool, the beach and by your lover. Even if single and wearing one of these costumes, I am sure within seconds of a hot guy or hot girl seeing you in this they will want to get to know you better.

Enjoy the beach, sea and sand.

Can Marriage Continue Without Sex?

For most men and women the moment they meet and fall in love is a very special time for them. Once this ‘love hold’ is achieved, they will try their very best to keep hold of this bull by the horns. I call this ‘love hold’ a ‘bull’ because like a bull it is sometimes angry, likes to flip you this way and that way, is associated with the colour red and if cheated will fiercely try to end you.

When most people commit to a marriage, they commit also to promises of love, happiness, fulfilment of duties and being together through sickness and in health. All of these commitments are great things to commit to but can we really commit ourselves wholly to this covenant.

We can maybe keep the promise of love but the happiness, fulfilment of duties and being together through sickness and in health are more difficult promises to keep. We can’t always be happy, there are times when we will be sad for one reason or another. We can’t always be together in sickness and in health because of work commitments or the hospital security gets in the way. We can’t always fulfil our duties because other commitments can get in the way too. One duty we should however try to always be on top (no pun intended) is to try to be good at the sex part of our life with our partner. The fact that the sexual part of the marriage is considered to be a duty by a lot of people speaks for itself. Duties are things that are usually boring but required no matter how good or bad you are feeling or what time of day it is. At 3 o’clock in the morning on a work day, do you ever have the time or the energy to perform your duty? Maybe when you were newly married you did. It is a shame that sex can become so monotonous for some couples. This is why we know that masturbation is not a duty; because you know when you and your body needs it. There is no thinking of a second third or any other party. You don’t have to share your duty like you would if you were in a threesome. You don’t have to work out a master plan of who is going to lick, suck and touch what. It is just pure and indulgent fun and pleasure between you and the thing you know the most, your hand love!

We meet, we fall in love, we marry or just live together, we have mind-blowing sex, we become too familiar, we start wearing leggings, shorts if we are a man, stop making an effort and eventually sporadically have sex or make a pencilled in appointment for sex that usually gets cancelled more often than checked off. It is not good enough! There is no reason for letting ourselves go because of time. The seventh or eight year and even the fiftieth year of marriage should still be providing steamy hot love between the sheets. Mating wherever your heart desires whether that be in your favourite reclining seat or even on the kitchen table, however, for a lot of women this is usually not an option because of the fact that they are usually thinking about cleaning the table rather than cleaning her mans love muscle with her tongue. Where should the blame lie for this I am not sure. Is it boredom? Is it the dreaded mother-in-laws? Is it too many friends that constantly visit at the wrong time? Is it just the jobs that we have making us far too busy, leaving us physically exhausted and with no sexual energy whatsoever? Or maybe it is the main contender, your young offspring who won’t go to bed on time making a love life on most nights (unless their grandparents take them) virtually impossible?

Whatever it is, a sexless marriage can lead to a loveless marriage, and a loveless marriage can lead to a sexless marriage. So sex is important for the upkeep and sustainability of a marriage. How are you going to make sex special and how are you going to find the time to perform your private carnal act together with no interruptions. For the first part to make the sex special you need either some sexy super hot lingerie, if you are in to rubber pvc gear then you can use this. If you find out that your husband likes wearing your clothes, then let him wear them if it makes your love making better. The main thing is it is all about effort. You need to make an effort. If you make a business meeting at work, you make time for it, no matter how busy you are. So why is it that at home your sexual plans are always double booked, un-book other plans, rearrange the rotas, cancel other non important things. You should create yourself a sex diary so that you can write in definite sexual days and stick with them. For women this is perfect, they can arrange it around their periods and for the man this is good too, he will know that his wife is not going to be giving him a serial killer look when he decides it is time to please his wife. It may sound procedural but at least then the sex life continues and so will the marriage. This way the husband is less likely to have an affair. Sometimes it may be difficult as are some boring meetings but this is part of the ups and downs of  a marriage. You may find you get used to it. If on a particular day you feel horny and want to have an early sexual encounter then this is possible but still stick to the sex diaries dates too and just count it as one or two extra treats in that week. But don’t ever count and say we had 6 last week, so only 4 this week because by doing this it will become less and less until one day the sex kitten or stud in the office will be on your guy or gal and your marriage could fall to pieces.

Stay happy, keep loving, keep the sex drive up and try everything in your power to keep things fresh as marriage is a great place to be when your in it but when it’s splitting at the edges it is like hell on earth.

Common reasons for not buying lingerie from online retailers.

 

The most common reason for not buying sexy lingerie from online retailers is because of privacy. Some people are too shy when it comes to ordering lingerie online and think that when the package is delivered the whole world will know its contents and you will be tainted by the perversion brush. Maybe it will cause a stir in the neighbourhood and your nattering neighbours may start talking badly about you or your postman may start looking at you strangely. They see a name on a package (e.g. Lingerie Sex, Lacy Late Night Lingerie or maybe even worse Kinky Dominatrix Lingerie Inc.) and think you are some kind of pervert. The world of the Internet may have moved on and sexual boundaries may have changed online but the world in the confines of a neighbours brain remains the same, full of gossip, jealousy and deceit. When you accept the covenant of marriage and when you accept your chosen lover for your partner, almost anything goes because in love should be trust. If you want to explore your sexual fantasies then  there should be nothing tainted or tarnished by your thoughts. In the confines of most married persons’ bedrooms and most dating singles too everyone is at it, even your closeted neighbour. The act of making love, having sex, getting down and dirty with one another there should be no shame or stigma attached.

If you want to buy sexy lingerie and send it to your house, then why not. If you want to wear this lingerie to seduce your partner and bring them to the heights of passion not seen since your wedding night, then why not. This sexy lingerie could be anything ranging from bras and panty sets, corsets, chemises, baby dolls, costumes, pvc and other fantasy wear, don’t be shy just buy and think about any problems later. You deserve it for your own and your partners pleasure. Online lingerie stores don’t advertise your name all over the Internet. We don’t advertise all over the packaging of the item that will arrive at your door, so it is fairly discreet. We don’t try to shame you. Why would we? We need our customers for our businesses to survive. Our only requirement is to sell great lingerie at reasonable prices, so that you may then explore your sexual fantasies and become a better sexual person as well as a better person outside of your sexual life, your normal day to day life. As you sexual adventures become more intimate, you feel a lot stronger as a person with no hang-ups about your body, a stronger bond with your partner and feel better for it.

When was the last time you saw a couple with one teenager child, that only had that little intimacy in order to create that child and in life they are the shyest and most private people you know. It is a shame because sex is not just about conception, it’s our entertainment when there is nothing on the TV. It keeps our marriage ticking over, keeps you fit and if you introduce some sexy lingerie in to the mix, it can have a more dramatic effect of giving pleasure to one another.

 

Other common reasons for not buying lingerie from an online retailer can be: Is the postage price is to high? – this shouldn’t be an issue most of the time since you cannot find the same style of lingerie product in your local, so should be a natural offset of the price.

What if my product doesn’t arrive? You should always check for returns information. In most cases you are allowed to return items but because of the type of item it is, it has to be returned unworn and still in it’s packaging. No-one wants to wear a lingerie that someone else has already worn.

The colour may be different from the picture? This is true, it may be slightly different colour from the picture but in general it is of a likeness to the advertised product and if it is slightly out, I am sure your partner would not be checking a colour chart when your breasts are all pushed up and voluptuous.

You have to remember that sexy lingerie is in most cases just a tool to get a job done, which means getting your husband, boyfriend or lesbian lover all sexually heightened. Making your partner feel special and treating them to something they may not see everyday. Don’t think about the buying process too much, if it is sexy, then buy it, if you think it will get your partner off then buy it. Of course if you are going to wear this item a lot of the time, look for a more comfortable lingerie item too, but if you don’t mind something tight fitting for one night to get some pleasurable ecstatic sex then I am sure whichever lingerie item you pick you will not be picking the wrong one.

How to get the sexy back in your marriage.

The first year of marriage is like an amazing dream, the sex is usually good, the woman or man you have chosen is willing to do almost anything for you and you for them and you feel like butterflies are living in your body. Your body feels light and you head feels light. The constant fly past of imaginary lovebirds circling your head makes you feel light-hearted. Your heart is fit to burst. The love is strong.

Like everything in this world of ours if you use something too much it can break, become dysfunctional or simply fade away in to non-existence. Love can have this fading effect as well as your sexual relations with your partner. The big trick in this game is to keep both the sex and the love equal and continually try to check the unwritten report of your sexual live and love life is required.

In a sexless loveless marriages something will eventually suffer. So, for this reason, you seriously need to concentrate on having a healthy sex life and love life. Normally, the both of these love and sex come hand in hand but not always.

So how to get the sexy back in the marriage.

There are a series of ways you can do this:

1) Sexy Lingerie for her and sexy underwear for him. – There are many styles of lingerie to suit many people’s taste including baby doll's, corsets, pvc  leather lingerie, chemises, bras and panties as well as sexy club wear style lingerie, stocking and small school style bobby socks. My suggestion is to try them all out at least once and find something you are comfortable and then go with that.

2) Explore each others sexual fantasies – maybe he wants to dress up as a woman (if his other half is up for it) maybe she wants to dress up as a man. She may even want to role play and dress up as a sexy cheerleader or a hot teacher. He may want to dress up as a doctor and inspect you with the tools of his trade.

3) Maybe you both want to explore sex toys – There is nothing wrong with a sex toy or two if you want to explore your sexuality with your partner. He may enjoy seeing her come to orgasm whilst using a fake vibrating penis and maybe for her she could buy a fake vibrating vagina to use on him to discover new sexual territory. It sounds a little strange buying strange sexual items when we already have the same real equipment to do the job for us but it is all about perspective. If you are lying on top of your lover or even behind your lover doggy style you cannot always see exactly what is happening. If you are man you know you are entering your wife’s vagina but you don’t quite get a good enough look in some positions. If you are a woman, you can feel the head of his penis and the shaft entering you but same again you can’t quite see it. Maybe this is why men have an obsession with breasts when making love, because these are the two parts of a woman’s body they see most when making love. From the back cupping them at the front and from the front caressing them from the front.

4) Play food fights and wrestling – Some men and some women love to be covered in food, jams, honey, cake cream, chocolate, raspberry and other sweet and delicious body condiments. The wrestling can be performed after you are covered in sweet gooey goodness. You trying to lick his off and him trying to lick yours off. You can have rules, no licking any erogenous zone before 5 – 10 minutes of sugar wrestling is out. Maybe even set a small alarm clock so there is a round one, round tow and so on. The best of three rounds then it is a free for all, the first one to make the other one come. This food wrestling or food play is ok and can be fun to explore but as with many things revolving around love and sex, you have to be careful where your kids are (if you have kids) and make sure your Mother’s are not on their way over to you. The last thing you need is to be covered from head to toe in cake mixture only to hear the doorbell ring and have the embarrassment of trying to explain away the half cooked cake on your bare cheeked ass.

5) Stranger sex – You can role-play and act like a stranger to your lover, husband or wife, and arrange to meet in a place you both don’t know and dress up as a business man or woman, or a business man and a prostitute, even use real money, your man can give you money for your sexual services (you can go and buy yourself some shoes after). Maybe even be the naughty maid at home and your other half could be a butler and you steal away some sexual satisfaction together whilst cleaning the master’s chamber. Or maybe if you are a woman you could be the lady of the house and the plumber has arrived to check your pipes but instead he starts checking your pipes.

6) Real stranger sex – Swinging – This does not sit well with everyone but if your marriage is in a state and you need some uplifting sex to invigorate your sex life with your partner you can always swing. There are many different kinds of events around the world and I thing you would be surprised by the many people that actually do swing. Swinging for those that do not know is the act of going to a party or premises with the intention of having sex with someone else’s wife or husband, it is a shared opportunity because the woman of the couple gets to have sex with a new guy and the man of the couple gets to pick himself a new sexual object. Normally the people are chosen like a kind of lottery, the more traditional way, putting of your keys in to a bowl and having it fished out by the person you will get physical with. Normally all of the people go back to their partners and have a normal sexual life but for some it can tip them over to always want something new.

7) Naked resorts – You may think this is similar to swinging but it is not at all. Many people the world over like to try exhibitionism. They just show of their bodies, they probably get some excitement out of it but usually they only want to show their bodies and they don’t necessarily want to have sex with anybody. They are a little different from swingers. However, just showing off your body to your partner and to other individuals and getting used to your naked body could also be a marriage saver.

There are many other ways to bring some love and sex back in to your marriage and make a marriage last, some a little risqué than others but overall the ones I have written about are a perfect place to start if your marriage is flagging. Who wants to go to a marriage counsellor first, try to solve these problems yourself first and then as a last resort go to a counsellor. If you are baring your sex life to another then you may as well show your body to another, not quite the same I know but the marriage counsellor may even suggest something along these lines at a later stage. Whatever you do make sure you and your partner both agree and explain it is for the good of the marriage. I wish all who read a happy love filled and sex filled life!